For about 10 years, I was a birth doula and learned to hone my skills as an accompanier. That means now I use those same skills to accompany people as they move through other transitions and “births”. My work with you is about accompaniment—being a caring companion, a witness to your struggle, a curious co-learner, a gentle, firm voice asking you what you want and reminding you of the wisdom you have inside and the resources you have for more growth and resilience.

As a facilitator, my goal is “to make things easier*”. As a coach, I’m here to help you ask better questions and see possibilities to make the changes you want and need to make. The work I support through coaching or facilitating is your work to do—be it collaborate with your team on a strategic plan or come into alignment through team building exercises or improve communication as you learn your enneagram profiles and deepen self-awareness. It is my work to make it easier through skilled support and guidance.

I’m Charlton Alexander, a lifelong Capetonian and the heart behind Liminal Tours — a practice of actions and reflections rooted in the people and places that shaped me.

Guided by Ubuntu, I cherish being Lauren’s partner and Reth’s dad, which remains my greatest privilege. I love connecting visitors to Cape Town — a city of breathtaking beauty and deep inequality — through stories and places like the Tutu Exhibition, Langa, Hermanus, Muizenberg and so much more.